“I was checking through an online dating site not so long ago, I found a profile on there that sounded and looked quite familiar to me, I made contact with the guy as much out of curiosity as much as anything else and after some online chat and messaging we worked both knew that we were employer and employee. My boss was married and exercising his right to an open relationship it seemed. He was hot and I was hot for him so we’ve taken a few lunch breaks together recently, the sex has been great. It remains to be seen how this is going to play out as far as my job goes but for now I just want to have sex and nothing more.”
Jayne 23 - Brisbane QLD
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“One thing most guys won’t admit to is a fetish for big girls but lets face it there are more than ver before to choose from. People both men and women are getting bigger so chances are your going to meet up with a hot big woman at some point in your life! From a guy who has been there and done that all I can say is that it is worth doing and lots of fun. From where I sit you need to get one with a good shape, she can be big but she must be big in the right places. It’s no good if she is built like a beer keg, you want shape with yoru fat chick! I think anyone who tries one for the first time is going to get a nice surprise.”
John 38 Kings Cross NSW

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Hardcore adult dating is exactly what it claims to be - dating for the purpose of getting hardcore sex! It’s not about warm and fuzzy relationships, its about finding people for casual one night stands, threesomes, wife swapping and group sex. It’s very common to use a website and hardcore dating sites have the highest number of members, lots of hardcore images and chat. Expect graphic sexual photos and behaviour from the members. These types of dating communities will have a concentration of bi, straight and gay members, couples and sex groups. They go to sex clubs and have a lot of sex parties - If you are excited by this type of fun then you should try out a few of the sex dating sites to see how you like them!
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If you have ever thought about sex with a hot milf then perhaps you should be looking online to live out the fantasy? Older women will often act out a fantasy with a younger guy or even maintain a short term sexual realtionship with a younger man just to satisfy their needs. Milfs are often very liberated and use online dating sites to seek out guys for sex.
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What type of pictures should you use on a dating site ? It depends if your on a swingers website or a photo rating website. Mainstream dating sites don’t accept the adult images but the other sites will take just about anything that you are comfortable with. You need to be aware that any image you post may end up copied and all over the net. It’s a fact of internet life that you can’t stop things getting copied and pasted all over the world. Keep this in mind and consider editing out your faces if you want to display sex scenes or nude shots. Think about what it might mean if the wrong people get hold of these images. It happens and it happens all the time online. use caution when sharing photos or posting images on any website. If your on a mainstream dating site your image may still be copied and distributed.
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Never before had we been involved in the swingers scene - Ever! So our story goes like this, we made the choiec to spice up our sex life - No fucking about we were bored shitless with our sex life and we ahd tried it all. The next step was cheating I think for both of us. Then we though we would look at some dating sites online to see what was on offer. So we did and well we saw some very hot couples with ads in our area. One couple was running regular sex parties so we got in touch with them and arranged an invite. it was pretty wild, they don’t mess around but they did have a bit of a mingle area and play areas so you were under no pressure to drop your pants when you walked through the door. We both fucked ourselves silly, it’s like a bit of a fantasy fix almost for us. OUr sex life has been on fire since the party and I am pretty sure we are going again very soon. Probably when the buzz wears off. Jed and Holly Couple married 6 years - 32, 37 Sydney NSW
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What type of women can you meet on a dating site? The best way to determine what you should expect to find on a dating site is by taking a look at the local shopping mall. Take a walk around or sit in a busy spot and drink some coffe and look at the women walking past - this should not be to hard for most men. Work out your own system for rating the women passing by and then work out the ratio of what you would consider a hot woman to not so hot. When you go online you can then apply this basic rule to the dating sites you vist.
The ratio should be about the same as what you would seen on the street - not every girl is a 10! This is not true in life and this is not true on any dating site. Of course you will find lots of pretty girls on dating sites, some are going to be genuine, some are not. The reasons for this are many and varied - Dating sites don’t wnat to stop hot sexy women form posting on their sites as they are very good for business. You have misleading profiles because rival sites will often post sexy images and profiles to steal customers, escorts will place profiles to get clients, there are the 1900 phone number scam companies that work over the dating sites fishing for guys. Then you have people using images of other people, under age users scamming as adults for fun. So it is a constant battle to manage the content of the site to keep it genuine, the bigger the site the bigger the problem interms of management. Myspace although not a dedicated dating site has the biggest spam problem in the world right now, it’s a spam free for all and like any site there is a percentage of real information but the site is littered with bots and fake profiles.
So keep in mind when you consider upgrading your membership on any dating site then look at the base of members and just make sure they are real looking people not all playboy centerfolds “who just can’t seem to meet guys” - Think real world and make sure you contact lots of people when your on a site so that you spread your risk!
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“I got just fed up with the club scene, finding a good dating site and meeting women online is the way to go for me. Maybe it’s not for everyone but in terms of results and screening I love the online dating game” — John 27yrs Melbourne Victoria
“I have a sex problem, I love it! Can’t get enough love so I use the dating sites online all the time. I’ve met heaps of guys and couples and lived a few dreams. I like way ti works and I am sure it is the future way most people will meet when they hit the dating wall. For a healthy sexual lady like myself I love it” — Jayne 31yrs Brisbane
“We are long term habitual swingers and proud of it! The online dating sites have given us some great friends and great fantasies - we are members of about 4 Aussie dating sites and it is now just part of what we do and who we are. We don’t play in our own backyard but we do play and often” — Jordan & Tasha 33 QLD
“When I hit 20 and was still a virgin I decided to go online and solve my problem. I did in fact solve it within a week!” — Pete 21 WA - Online Dating Convert!
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Our free chat room is now online - This is a free room we are running open for the public and members. There is no registration required and users can enter the chat and join in with no identity if they like. There is an option to assign yourself a chat name which a few members are now doing. There is no theme to this room other than general adult chat.
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Couples Checklist - Is it time to swing?
Are you a litte bored with your parter?
Do you suspect they feel the same way about you?
Are you and your partner secure in the relationship?
Are you both open to new ideas?
Have you discussed the idea of partner swapping with your partner?
Have you ever had swinger fantasies?
Have you thought about cheating on your partner to get it out of your system?
So if your seeing a few “yes” answers here it might just be time to consider a couples club swingers website or swingers party. Online datnig for couples is growing in popularity and if your feeling secure in your raltionship and both parties are willing to experiment then it might be a viable alternative to the bedroom DVD and a few sex toys that just don’t seem to be that much fun anymore! Couples are even posting on photo dating / rating websites to see how they rate with other couples! If you think your ready then register on a good dating site and check out some other couples, see if anything appeals. Go to some adult clubs and see if you feel comfortable in the enviornment. Don’t rush things, you can ease into the swinger scene at yoru own pace and don’t let anyone push you beyond your limits!
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