Ever been to a swinger club? If your thinking of testing the waters with some wife swapping or group sex then check out the local adult clubs and or parties. This can be one way to meet up with some swinger couples without the immediate pressure of getting down and dirty on the very first meeting. Check out what is going on and see if you can meet some couples that you connect with. Chemistry is important for both parties so at a club or party you can move around and see who takes your eye - there should be no pressure to play unless everyone is comfortable! You can use a club or event to meet a couple from an online site for the first time, it may be much better than a 1 on 1 meeting. Both parties may use the escape button without leaving the other stranded so to speak. A party or event is a good ice breaker, some couples may like to share partners but not conversation, you can expect to see plenty of action in a swinger club at the very least your eyes will be opened.